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open minded couple looking for a guy or guys to take me wife and have your way with her she loves to be pleased and she loves pleasing she is open mined we can host some days early in the morning race is not important if this interests you let me know consideration given first to hung guys , BBC, younger guys of age of course , or guys with friends we also ask you are open minded to making a video of the encounter for personal use as i cannot get enough of seeing her with other guys and I know she loves it too i may be there if hosting but take her into one of the other rooms and enjoy
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married couple I do not need to be there we can host some days early in the day were ok with getting a motel too if yous can host that's a bonus she can travel certain distances anyways looking for a younger guy that can go multiple rounds and is not camera shy as we want to video tape the encounter for personal use as I do enjoy seeing her with other guys we want someone who is hung , younger ,BBC Or Two guys were ok with others too just know these are some of her preferences she loves pleasing and being pleased very open minded I have no restrictions she has some but if shes horny who knows haha anyways if you have pictures/video thats a bonus too send away and lets get rolling :)
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ABSOLUTELY NO
●PROSTITUTES OR
●TIME WASTERS,
●SCAMMERS.
●YOU ARE NOT WELCOME HERE ●
I'm into WARM, MONOGAMOUS but PASSIONATE, SENSUAL SEX.
ME
*Drug & Disease Free
*White
*Youthful but in 40s
*Active, agile
*34" Waist
*Working Towards 165 lbs. Loose 15.
*Cute butt
*Thicker uncut cock
*A bit, kinky but nothing weird. **NOTHING PAIN RELATED**
WOMEN I LIKE:
■Drug & Disease Free ■MANDATORY■
(THIS IS ALL AVERAGES, NOTHING FINAL)
*White, Italian, Portuguese, Asian Oriental, Native American, Eastern European, Light Trinidadian, Light Guyanese, Light Black, Westernized East Indian..etc.
*Aged 20 to 58 (in good shape)
*Big Boobs a must (average 36 B & up)
*Shapely Butt
*Average/Slimmer side
*115 lbs to 155 lbs
*Longer Hair
*Neatly Trimmed OR Shaven Pussy
*Clean Ass Area
SEX I LIKE:
MUTUAL
*Kissing
*Licking
*Sucking
*Massage
*Oral
*Anal Play
*Anal Fuck (for Her)
*Anal Cream Pie (for Her)
*Missionary (cream pie if safe)
*Doggy
*Gentle Jackhammer
*Cowgirl, Reverse Cowgirl, Layback Cowgirl
*Spooning
*Shower Fun
*Some Toys
*Some Video Watching at times
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I have a fantasy from my school days.
I would like to incorporate this with like minded friends who missed this.
■ANY MALES INTERESTED MUST BE VERY FEMININE PLEASE.
■EVERYONE MUST BE DRUG & DISEASE FREE PLEASE.
●THE FANTASY●
●Having an SPECIAL after school club where we can be FREE AS OUR SELVES. Do and talk about anything BUT NO DRUGS.
●NO SOCIETY RULES, NO PARENTS, NO TEACHERS, NO CHURCH..
●We can hot tub, shower, and have bi sex together. Talk about secrets and stuff.
●Be a safe place for everyone to feel comfortable.
I AM:
*White
*Average but active
*5'8"
*34" waist
*Working towards 165 lbs.
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I am VERY YOUTHFUL but in my 40s.
I am great with my hands both work wise as well as in an intimate sense.
I have allot of skills to offer.
OFFERING TO TRADE
LOYAL COMPANIONSHIP and WORK
FOR FINANCIAL SUPPORT to allow for some dreams to be realized.
Caucasian
5'8"
34" waist
Working on 165 lbs
7 inch uncut and thicker
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Hi I’m from Kitchener Ontario wondering if there is a woman that likes big chubby men. I’m 6ft tall weight over 300 pounds in my 60s single and live alone. I would enjoy your company
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6 feet 180 7 uncut married male looking to swallow a hot cock and load , text me at 705 977 3923
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●I ONLY TALK THROUGH OH MY MESSAGING AND WILL NOT, EMAIL YOU●
MISSISSAUGA
I'm YOUTHFUL appearing, and acting but in my 40s. Clean, Wht. Drug&disease free.
You must be clean, drug&dusease free as well.
I enjoy passionate, mutual oral foreplay and I pride myself on it., I like eating and licking p*ssy and a*s. I'm into doggy, missaonary, cowgirl, reverse cowgirl, and layback cowgirl. Love 69, spooning, some anal, showers, and open minded to most things as long as it's not painful.
Warm oilly Massage is a great way to start out
I'm a breast man. 34B to 36DD.
Longer hair is a turn on.
I like women of different backgrounds including lighter black, asian, light Trinidad and Guyanese. Eastern European, native American Indian, latin, Portuguese, Italian, east Indian etc.
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●I ONLY TALK THROUGH OH MY MESSAGING AND WILL NOT, EMAIL YOU●
!NO WOMEN WHO CHARGE!
I'm in MISSISSAUGA.
Lets fuck&suck each other on a regular basis..
!Must be drug&disease free!.
Must have big boobs and nice ass.
(34C to DD)
Attractive face.
Average slim.
20s to 55ish
One on one (MONOGAMOUS)
Almost anything except pain related activities goes.
I LIKE..
Passionate but not rough
*Little kinky
*Massage (mutual)
*Foreplay
*Love 69
*Mutual Oral
*Squirting
*Spooning
*Missionary
*Doggy
*Cowgirl
*Reverse Cowgirl
*Layback Cowgirl
*Anal Play (Mutual)
*Anal Intercourse for female
*Jackhammer
*Licking&sucking
*Some Toys
*Shower fun
*Porn
Reply with details and description and body pictures.
I'm youthful but in 40s
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●I ONLY TALK THROUGH OH MY MESSAGING AND WILL NOT, EMAIL YOU●
For females & very feminine males
!!!!NO SEX WORKERS!!!!
Looking for regular NSA sex.
(I'm not paying)
No drama or trouble please.
You must be drug&disease free..
*Sexual interests list further below.
I prefer large breasted women.legal to 57ish who are in shape.
Or
Very feminine younger men/twinks. Thinner. Legal to 30ish. Must be Both top and bottom.
I am 40s caucasian but look more youthful.
Active, Sensual, Quite horny, very affectionate, pleasure minded.
Thicker cock.
*Sexual Interests:
*shower play*foreplay*kissing*licking*gentle/moderate sucking*gentle nipple licking
*mutual oral*mutual anal play*anal intercourse for female
*missionary*doggy*Cowgirl*Reverse Cowgirl*Lay Back Cowgirl
*spooning*love 69*jackhammer*
*anal&vaginal creampie
*some toys*watch porn sometimes is fine.
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●I ONLY TALK THROUGH OH MY MESSAGING AND WILL NOT, EMAIL YOU●
I AM IN MISSISSAUGA.
Seeking Attractive Female For Regular Sex & Cuddles & possibly OPEN to a Real Relationship.
**NO PROSTITUTES/SEX WORKERS. I WON'T REPLY.**
I'm seeking a female "FRIEND WITH BENEFITS" who can POSSIBLY turn into a serious bonded relationship.
ALL PHYSICAL TRAITS are ballpark- estimates.
I AM PASSIONATE, ANIMALISTIC but GENTLE.
"I love eating pussy and asshole."
"I love to fuck and suck mutually."
*I am white,
*Very Active
*5 foot 8 inches tall
*34 inch waste
*Nice butt
*7 inch thicker cock
*working towards 160 lbs but now 175 lbs
**MUST BE DRUG AND DISEASE FREE** NO EXCEPTION, PLEASE.
*I prefer women 21 to 55 yrs of age.
*Prefer MONOGAMOUS but open.
*4 foot 11 inches to 5 foot 5 inches tall.
*115 lbs to 150 lbs.
*Big Boobs, 34B to DD maybe bigger.
*Longer hair.
*Neat trim or shaved pubs.
***************MUST BE************** *******VERY SEXUAL-SENSUAL.******
*********NOTHING PAINFUL.*********
I LIKE:
*Passionate and warm...
*Kissing, licking almost everywhere (lips, neck, body, pussy, anus,)
*Shower Fun
*Mutual massage
*Mutual oral
**LOVE 69
*Female Squirting-G Spot
*Spooning
*Missionary (creampie if possible l)
*Doggy (creampie if possible)
*Nice Jackhammer
*Cowgirl-Reverse Cowgirl-Layback Cowgirl
*Mutual Anal Play
*Anal Intercourse for Female
I LIKE:
Asian, Caucasian, Italian, Portuguese, Native Indian, Lighter Skin Black, Trinidadian, Guyanese, Latin, etc.
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●I ONLY TALK THROUGH OH MY MESSAGING AND WILL NOT, EMAIL YOU●
I AM IN MISSISSAUGA.
Seeking Attractive Female For Regular Sex & Cuddles & possibly OPEN to a Real Relationship.
**NO PROSTITUTES/SEX WORKERS. I WON'T REPLY.**
I'm seeking a female "FRIEND WITH BENEFITS" who can POSSIBLY turn into a serious bonded relationship.
ALL FEMALES PHYSICAL TRAIT PREFERENCES are ballpark- estimates.
I AM PASSIONATE, ANIMALISTIC but GENTLE.
"I love eating pussy and asshole."
"I love to fuck and suck mutually."
*I am white,
*Very Active
*5 foot 8 inches tall
*34 inch waste
*Nice butt
*7 inch thicker cock, UNCUT
*working towards 160 lbs but now 175 lbs
**MUST BE DRUG AND DISEASE FREE** NO EXCEPTION, PLEASE.
*I prefer women 21 to 55 yrs of age.
*Prefer MONOGAMOUS but open to my ideas.
*4 foot 11 inches to 5 foot 5 inches tall.
*115 lbs to 150 lbs.
*Big Boobs, 34B to DD maybe bigger.
*Longer hair.
*Neat trim or shaved pubs.
***************MUST BE************** *******VERY SEXUAL-SENSUAL.******
*********NOTHING PAINFUL.*********
I LIKE:
*Passionate and warm...
*Kissing, licking almost everywhere (lips, neck, body, pussy, anus,)
*Shower Fun
*Mutual massage
*Mutual oral
**LOVE 69
*Female Squirting-G Spot
*Spooning
*Missionary (creampie if possible l)
*Doggy (creampie if possible)
*Nice Jackhammer
*Cowgirl-Reverse Cowgirl-Layback Cowgirl
*Mutual Anal Play
*Anal Intercourse for Female
I LIKE:
Asian, Caucasian, Italian, Portuguese, Native Indian, Lighter Skin Black, Trinidadian, Guyanese, Latin, etc.
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●I ONLY TALK THROUGH OH MY MESSAGING AND WILL NOT, EMAIL YOU●
Looking for a busty (big tits) clean women
21 to 55 in age.
Longer hair
36B and up cup size.
**Must take care of yourself.
**Must be drug and disease free.**
I prefer Oriental Asian, Caucasian, Italian, Portuguese, Latin, Trinidadian, Guyanese, Lighter black, Native American, British, etc.
**Open to most ONE ON ONE fun, **NOTHING PAINFUL**
I LIKE:
Natural dirty talk (not forced)
Shower fun
Passionate foreplay
Sensual kissing, sucking
Mutual oral and cuming
Massage
Missionary
Mutual, gentle anal play
Anal Intercourse (for you)
Anal creampie (for you)
****LOVE 69****
Spooning
Cowgirl
Reverse Cowgirl
Lay back Cowgirl
Doggy
Nice Jackhammer
Some Adult Video watching is fine but not needed
**ANYTHING COMFORTABLE**
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Hey,
Do resemble the guy in the pic? Chubby, mature, submissive? Wanting to find a friend to please? Enjoy an exploring another man? Enjoy getting naked with another man? Enjoy the soft side of a Dom/sub relationship? Caucasian?
Well, if you answered YES to more than one of the above questions we may be a pair… only our chemistry can tell for certain.
I am a Soft Dominant man seeking a receptive masculine male.
If this interests you, but you need an understanding of what a Soft Dom is… here you go:
Soft domination is a type of consensual power exchange in which the dominant partner takes a gentle, caring approach to the relationship, providing guidance and support rather than exercising absolute authority. It is important to note that a soft dom does not have any less control over the submissive partner than a traditional dom; rather, they take a different approach to the power exchange, emphasizing emotional connection and mutual respect.
In a nutshell, if you are into receiving pain, degradation, humiliation… we are not a match.
If you are into a session of cuddling, kissing, being a submissive to your Man by pleasing him in all ways you can imagine to fulfill your fantasies, we may be the match.
If you are still engaged and reading through to the end, you must been intrigued by this post and the opportunity. To qualify for this position, you must over 50, any body size but preference given to stocky to chub, penis size is not a concern, ED is not an issue, willing to explore yourself and your Man, have a desire to make out for hours, submissive and filled with the desire to worship and please your Man.
To acknowledge your understanding and sincerity (being serious), QUOTE “Soft Sub” and tell me about yourself in the return message.
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I'm Married but in Toronto for a week for work.
Looking for something simple and fun with someone who is looking for the same.
American who travels the world for work.
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I’m building an online adult community with various revenue streams, including an adult toy store (Dildos need not apply). I’m a content creator and web designer, and now I’m on the lookout for a bisexual female partner who’s got a sense of adventure and isn’t scared off by the idea of making some videos down the road. No, really, I mean it. Must be local to the area, as I believe in building something real and hands-on together.
But hold on, I’m not just looking for someone to tag along; I’m after a partner in every sense of the word—someone who’s down for both business and pleasure. Think of it as a BFF situation with a twist. I’m pretty open-minded (no, seriously, your past or current job doesn’t faze me), and while age is just a number, let’s keep it within reason, alright? Plus, here’s your chance to live out your fantasies—I’m not looking for a Barbie doll, just someone real and ready for adventure. I’m as real as it gets, and I can smell a scam with a handshake. But rest assured, this is not a scam, and I can send proof to back that up. Oh, and I’m totally party-friendly, so if you like to have a good time, we’re already on the same page. I love all kinds of music, so whether it’s chilling with some tunes or just enjoying great conversation, I’m in. And did I mention? I cook like a champ and love cooking for a lot of people—so if you enjoy great food, you’re in for a treat. Plus, I am witty and hilarious, kind-hearted, have a soft touch, and am very attentive, so expect plenty of laughs and care along the way.
Yes, I’m totally non-judgmental. Life histories? Got it, we’ve all got them, but it’s not a deal breaker. Family is very important to me, and I believe in maintaining strong connections with loved ones. Your current income isn’t relevant—what matters is your passion and drive. Plus, if the idea of marathon sex excites you, you might just have found your Mecca. I’ve also got a witty, twisted sense of humor and love to joke and laugh, so if you’re someone who appreciates a good laugh, we’ll get along just fine. But please, no drama queens—leave your crown at home. I’m looking for someone who can bring content input and has a creative mind to help shape our vision.
This is not a one-night stand, and as you can see, I’m very good with words. There’s no need for any financial investment—just your time and commitment. The website? It will have the potential for many revenue streams and plenty of room for expansion, so there’s a lot of opportunity here. But, fair warning, you’ll need a healthy dose of patience, because Rome wasn’t built in a day, and neither is a pleasure-packed venture. If you’re the right woman, there’s even a legal partnership in the cards—responsibility and rewards included, batteries not.
So, if you’re trustworthy, loyal, and have a sense of humor about this whole thing, we might just make the perfect team. I’m all in for creating something meaningful, and if you’re ready to roll up your sleeves (and lift your skirt), let’s see where this crazy ride takes us.
Shoot me a message—let’s make some magic happen, or at least a really great story for the grandkids.
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Hi is there any women truck drivers interested in getting together with a male driver
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51 yr old, swm, slim build, looking for a fun adventurous couple to play with. Respond with what the two of you enjoy, and we can go from there. NO SINGLE MALES
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Senior over 60 looking for cd to play with im single bigger guy and have my own place
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Hi ladies
im looking for a lady for some fun times
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Hi there!
I'm 40, Divorced with no kids, I am 6'2 tall and born in Toronto from North African roots. I am an engineer by trade and work in tech. I love to travel, good food, cooking, reading and enjoy intellectual conversations. Intelligence is my biggest turn on in a woman. Please feel free to ask me anything
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34 year old straight male here looking for a hookup a female in the gta (preferably markham area or durham area but not a dealbreaker) someone who drives is preferred but again not a dealbreaker, be okay with meeting up for some casual fun regularly, and I have my own car and drive also so we can meet half way also as an option.
We can get to know eachother first and see where things go.
Send a message if interested.
About me
Lightskin
Good looking
Tall
Clean and tested (can provide proof)
Ethnicity: Caribbean (west indian/african/spanish/irish)
Height: 6'1
Wieght: 165
Size: 8.5 cut/circumsized
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I'm looking for a pillow princess that I can pamper orally. I've got some time off Thursday through Sunday and would enjoy meeting someone during those days or nights to orally satisfy them. No reciprocation is wanted, just your pleasure.
I would love to spend hours pampering you, and when you're done, just let me know and I'll lick you clean and leave.
Ideally I would like something ongoing if our times line up again.
I'm normal, clean, educated, orally talented friendly, gentle and have a good sense of humor. I'm 5'10, 155 lbs, fit, healthy, non smoker, salt and pepper hair, brown short beard, hazel/greenish eyes.
I'm extremely discreet and want the same from you. This just be 2 people enjoying each others company. I don't mind if you're attached, but lets talk about that situation before we meet.
Please be drug, disease, infection free. We're all here to have a good time, not spread stuff around.
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Craving a connection that’s both wild and discreet? I’m guy looking for a casual fling that’s all about intense passion and raw desire. Let’s indulge in each other’s fantasies and create unforgettable, steamy moments together.
Since messaging here is limited, find me on insta with name here and let’s set this fire ablaze
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Looking for a good time . I'm all you need .
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Male and woman friend looking for a bi male . My woman friend wants to watch two men giving each other oral. She will participate after watching but there will be some conditions. If you are interested please message. He is 66 years old 6ft tall weight around 300 lbs she is very attractive fantastic body and breasts her age 47 height 5foot 10 inches
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MISSISSAUGA
I am seeking a GENUINE MUTUAL EXCHANGE.
I offer genuine loyalty, faithfulness, real affection, companionship and more as we get to know each other.
I am fairly "open minded", sensual but monogamous.
ASK ME WHAT I LIKE FOR INTIMACY.
Drug&disease free and physically active/agile.
Non smoker.
I am interested in an attractive women who partices self care (keeps in shape and looks after herself). Otherwise age is not a deal breaker.
I am youthful, I am regularly told I look 5-10 years younger but I'm in my my 40s.
Wht.
5'8"
34" waist
Average but active build.
I am working towards my ideal weight of 160 lbs and need to loose 10 or so lbs.
Clean shaven, also wear facial hair at times.
Black shaven hair
Cute butt ; )
INTERESTS AND ACTIVITIES:
*Music of different genres including ROCK.
*dancing
*movies/t.v.
*concerts/karaoke
*special events, subject shows, theift sales, etc.
*creative projects, design, building, etc.
*classic cars
*walks, hikes, exploring, swim, cottaging
*bike riding and snowboarding to stay in shape.
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You: female ( or gepu.of female friends ) over the age of 18. Preferably younger than 40. A.bit on the bossy side.
Me: male , 43, ok looking, dress well . .My turn on is ro be (used) , ro run your errands , be used by you , humiliated, be used as an ATM. (Nothing online whatsoever ).
I Don't expect any sexual favours in return. $
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I'm seaking an ARRANGEMENT of sorts.
I'm willing to be a "companion" and more in exchange for support to have a better life.
My housing and other things I'd like to accomplish.
I've tried on my own and having allot of difficulty. Just need help.
I need a FEMININE LOOKING/acting male, preferably younger.
I am told I look 5 to 10 years younger consistently but in my 40s.
I am active, loyal, considerate.
If I'm comfortable I can be very sensual/sexual, passionate.
I am drug and disease free and EXPECT THE SAME, NO EXCEPTIONS PLEASE.
I am white
5'8"
34" waist
Working towards 160 lbs but I'm about 175 right now.
Black shaved hair.
Clean shaven, sometimes wear facial hair.
I like shaven privates for both of us.
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Seeking a straight bi curious guy who’s into having some safe sex in the shower. I like to suck jerk and rim. I can host and looking for masculine good looking clean and discreet.
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Looking for a straight guy that wants to be seduced. I’m into fondling groping stroking and sucking a nice big straight dick NSA.
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Hi just looking for some friends to date and hang out with.
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-51 m, good looking, well-hung, easygoing, looking for married (to a woman) male for occasional weekday get togethers
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No string attached come fuck me tonight at super 7 hotel london ont
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Hello 38 male 218lbs with 9.5 thick cock looking to.join and please
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Hello
Im.38 m 218 with a good size 9.5 thick cock to.play with looking to.please
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Hello
Im.looking to please I'm 38 218 with a 9.5 " thick cock age and size don't matter
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msg me
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41 yrs old fit, gentleman, businessman and active, looking to find someone who like using me . That's what turns me on.
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Busy schedule! I hope you’re busy too.
looking for someone fun and easy going. I have a great sex drive. Looking to meet up once a month for a few hours of sex.
I can host in a local hotel. Discreet. No games no bs.
grab a drink and see if we hit it off :)
im in Toronto. High sex drive. Clean. Fit. Well dressed.
let’s have some secret fun!
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I love having my ass rimmed. If you enjoy eating ass then we should meet. Bonus if you are unshaven or have facial hair. I can host.
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I want to meet a guy with big pecs and nipple play. If you like having your man boobs played with and your nipples sucked, get back to me. I can host on weekends.
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My girlfriend and I are seeking a female that would be interested in joining in. She is 29. Gorgeous with a great body. Jet black hair. I’m 40 with an athletic fit. Salt n pepper hair color. For enquiries plz email. We would be happy to talk. Email will be responded to quickly. No males at all. Thank you.
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No matter how old I get I still don't like being alone.. especially at night. I need hugs to sleep well... Confident, creative, smart and a little bit curious girl who enjoys nice and enjoyable conversation. Prefer no emotions, only pure adult fun and adventure.. if you have a weak heart, better skip. Easy going girl, open minded and loves to laugh. Looking for discreet meetings and chat. I can be good as an angel, but also bad as a devil.. it all depends on you. Which side suits you better. ps.. I prefer older than me. I don't need some kind of a boy in my life.. Age is just a number, I value some other things!
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I am seeking an ongoing friend with benefits arrangement with a lady.
I am also open to couples.
I am a 50 year businessman in London.
I am fit, attractive, fun and always respectful.
I am looking for ongoing friendship and play.
Your age MUST be over 21 years of age, marital status is not important to me.
Perhaps I can help you with somethings.
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I am very passionate.
Discreet.
Mutual top and bottom.
Thicker 7 inch.
Shaven cock/ass (you aswell)
YOU MUST BE DRUGFREE & DISEASE FREE PLEASE.
YOU MUST HOST.
CA$H AHEAD OF STARTING PLEASE
I prefer asian, eastern European, caucasian,
No east indian or african american please.
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I'm mature but youthful,
Im told I look 5-10 years younger than my age (40s)
*5'8"
*34" waist
*170 lbs but really to get in better shape
I am super sexual but monogamous.
I prefer 1 ON 1.
Sensitive, sensual, very affectionate and mild kinky (nothing weird, nothing painful)
BUSTY IS A MUST (34 B and up)
I prefer AVERAGE WEIGHT SIZE WOMEN and a little slimmer (ballpark 120 lbs to 140 lbs)
I like longer hair.
I like cute butts
I enjoy allot of mutual pleasuring.
FAVOURITE FUN:
*Passionate kissing, licking, touch
*Some Dirty Talk
*Oral, Fingering
*Vaginal Intercourse
*Squirting (You)
*Anal play (both of us), Anal Intercourse (For You), Anal Creampie (For You)
*Love 69
*Sitting on my Face Oral
*Missionary
*Cowgirl, Reverse Cowgirl, Layback Cowgirl
*Spooning
*Some toys (For You)
*Im ok with watching adult video to a point
*Shower Sex
*A little pee is fine (in shower only)
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Looking for a guy to fuck me anonymously while my BF watches and makes a video. I will not look at you because I am shy. My boyfriend will let you in and I will be on the bed in doggy position wearing a short little pleated skirt and body stocking. I'll be looking into. A camera connected to a TV so you can see my face, but I won't see yours.
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Located in Etobicoke.
Can host
Must be fit or slender and super clean.
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I'm searching for the guy that CAN'T get it Harder and/or stay Hard.
I have the help...